What's the point?

What's the point of being a hater? Is there really one? I mean, can't we be happy that our community is succeeding in someway or is it that if we can't achieve something, no one else can? SMH.

Hoes

Why does it seem like all guys want is a ho? I mean, I've never gotten it: you're hitting it, ya boy hitting it, his girl's hit it, etc but yet, ya'll still fucking her. WHY?! Is it because she's easy or because you don't like to work hard? I just can't imagine being a ho at such a young age.
On that note, I'm gonna have to ask that people on formspring not call me a ho nor call any of my friends a ho b/c it's not cool. Just because we have lives but people who don't spread rumors, you don't have to call us a ho.

Who am I?

So watching the Best Man and it has been thinking: when it's all said and done, who am I? To most people I'm just that weird girl who no one is quite sure how to take but to my true friends, how can you define me? I can give everyone the basics but who can read between the lines?
Honestly, I have very few friends and way too many associates. My friends love me flaws and all and enjoy my company (even though they might shouldn't) and my associates are the ones quicc to turn away. SMH. But here are the basics for everyone:
Name: Candace Alesia
Birthdate: Jan. 15, 1991
Hometown: You've never heard of it, 252, NC
Sexual orientation: Straight (for everyone who loves to say I'm gay or w/e, I'm straight as hell)
Relationship status: Single
That's all that most people know and that's all they need to know. But it seems like lately, more people actually think they can say what they want about me. Formspring isn't gonna protect you and just by not putting your name, it shows how scared you are. SMH. Sometimes I think the question isn't who am I but who are YOU to be in my business when you don't know me?
Ci

Question for my dudes

Ok I'm having a little problem understanding guys at the moment and I haven't really ever had this much trouble! Why is it that you say you like someone but the moment they show interest back in you, you run and hide? Or my favorite, telling someone you like them, chilling, telling them you still like them but when they try to be real with you, you kind of dip out. Truthfully, I'm starting to look at other races because they don't seem to be on as much drama as African Americans are. Black males get mad because black females don't date black males. Really?! Why keep stressing myself out over you? I don't really get it. I mean, maybe I should just chill & not worry because I'm so young but that's the point! I'm young & kind of want someone to chill with. Why is so hard for a young, highly intelligent, honest, ambitious female to find a guy? SMH. I hope guys understand that while you can have all the sex you want with a ho, the good females are heading towards other races because of it.
Sincerely,
CiCi