Well, I haven't been doing this right! Lol. So I've been tryn 2 take care for my hair u knw washing it and making it pretty. I have met some really nice females that have natural hair. From what I've been told and noticed, it's just how your hair is. It doesn't matter what others say but more so how ur head feels to you. I'm lovn the transition (rite now!) Hopefully more l8a!