Cantu: a review

So I bought this lovely little bottle of lameness b/c I had to flat iron my hair for band......I HATE THIS PRODUCT! It left my hair dirty and sticky and my flat iron extra dirty. I'm never buying this product again!
Maybe it'll work for somebody out there but it def didn't work for me.
Ci

And it ends.....

Today is my last full day as a college freshman. It's been pretty interesting and I've done things I never thought I would or could do. As I continue to grow, I think that college is the best thing that's ever happened for me. Thanks to everyone who helped me through this year and for the prayers that have gotten me through it all.
Ci

Taking a break

With all the drama that has surrounded me for the past few weeks when it comes to guys, I need a break. I'm boy crazy as hell but when it comes to it, I gotta get my focus right. So I've taken a sabbatical from boys. Maybe I'll figure out what I want from a guy.
In other news, I gotta start eating better and exercising because I gained like 5 pounds in a few weeks. Having a big butt ain't worth having a gut!
Ci

India.Arie - Video

India.Arie - Ready For Love

Julian

Ok so a few weeks ago, I go to the club and meet this dude. I text him b/c I was bored and we started chilling. First questions I always ask: are you straight, do you have a girl, do you have kids, crazy exes, facebook, etc just in case. This dude lies and says he's straight, single and off the grid. Strike one. Then I start to think, he lying. My homegirl tells me, he's lying.
So today, I'm getting dms from this guy and I look him up on Facebook. Low and behold: I find Mr. Julian on Facebook! The reason he couldn't text: he has a girl. The reason he stopped trying to talk to me: he knew I wasn't dumb. Moral of the story: don't lie! Facebook will tell all!

My first love

So a trending topic on Twitter got me thinking about my first kiss. That was such a long time ago! LOL I def remember him though b/c we saw each other a while ago at a basketball game. He didn't remember me though :-(.
While I was thinking about my first kiss, the thoughts crept into my head of my first love. Yeah, I'm 19 and most people are thinking that I don't know what love is. But for me, I knew. He was my boyfriend of like 2 or 3 years and I had the HUGEST crush on him in 9th grade. We became friends and eventually started dating. It was one of the best times in my life. We argued so much but at the end of the day, I knew that without a doubt, I loved him. Circumstances happened and we broke up and we aren't as good friends as I would like. I miss the way we used to just talk about everything.
But the point is: never forget your first anything. In a lot of ways, I wish I could go back and change how things were but I understand I needed to grow. Embrace your mistakes and love em!
Ci